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"Regret doesn’t remind us that we did badly — it reminds us that we know we can do better.” #quoteoftheday

“If we have goals and dreams and we want to do our best, and if we love people and we don’t want to hurt them or lose them, we should feel pain when things go wrong. The point isn’t to live without any regrets, the point is to not hate ourselves for having them… We need to learn to love the flawed, imperfect things that we create, and to forgive ourselves for creating them. Regret doesn’t remind us that we did badly — it reminds us that we know we can do better.”

- Kathryn Schulz

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The Invitation by Oriah

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www.oriahmountaindreamer.com/

 

It doesn’t interest me

what you do for a living.

I want to know

what you ache for

and if you dare to dream

of meeting your heart’s longing.

 

It doesn’t interest me

how old you are.

I want to know 

if you will risk 

looking like a fool

for love

for your dream

for the adventure of being alive.

 

It doesn’t interest me

what planets are 

squaring your moon...

I want to know

if you have touched

the centre of your own sorrow

if you have been opened

by life’s betrayals

or have become shrivelled and closed

from fear of further pain.

 

I want to know

if you can sit with pain

mine or your own

without moving to hide it

or fade it

or fix it.

 

I want to know

if you can be with joy

mine or your own

if you can dance with wildness

and let the ecstasy fill you 

to the tips of your fingers and toes

without cautioning us

to be careful

to be realistic

to remember the limitations

of being human.

 

It doesn’t interest me

if the story you are telling me

is true.

I want to know if you can

disappoint another

to be true to yourself.

If you can bear

the accusation of betrayal

and not betray your own soul.

If you can be faithless

and therefore trustworthy.

 

I want to know if you can see Beauty

even when it is not pretty

every day.

And if you can source your own life

from its presence.

 

I want to know

if you can live with failure

yours and mine

and still stand at the edge of the lake

and shout to the silver of the full moon,

“Yes.”

 

It doesn’t interest me

to know where you live

or how much money you have.

I want to know if you can get up

after the night of grief and despair

weary and bruised to the bone

and do what needs to be done

to feed the children.

 

It doesn’t interest me

who you know

or how you came to be here.

I want to know if you will stand

in the centre of the fire

with me

and not shrink back.

 

It doesn’t interest me

where or what or with whom

you have studied.

I want to know 

what sustains you

from the inside

when all else falls away.

 

I want to know

if you can be alone 

with yourself

and if you truly like

the company you keep

in the empty moments.

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#TEDxSummit Action Lab: Curating the Best of #TEDx Talks

The vision that came out of our TEDxSummit Action Lab in Doha a couple of weeks ago. Great job, team! 

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Some initial thoughts after three incredible months of TED & TEDx

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I had a great conversation over dinner in uptown Waterloo with one of my best friends earlier this evening. As we talked, it dawned on me that one of the reasons why I felt so wound up and restless these last few weeks, including this past week after coming back from Doha, was because I actually hadn't given myself the space nor the time to really decompress and reflect on everything that I'd been through these past three months: TEDActive, TEDxWaterloo and TEDxSummit, taking place one after another with a few weeks of downtime in between.

All of this while also going through the numerous challenges, including the highs and the lows, of building a startup tech company with a great team right here in Waterloo (keeping in mind that we only incorporated as a company in January early this year). 

Although these past three months have been incredible, they have also been a series of 'Go Go Go', where I think I've now hit a wall, metaphorically speaking of course, with the amount of new information and the range of perspectives that I can take in at the present moment. Using a phrase borrowed from a conference that I attended in Stratford, Ontario last week: 'I'm conferenced-out'. 

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Closing TED Session at TEDxSummit. Photo: Kris Krüg

I also wasn't kidding when I wrote shortly after coming back from Doha that I was still trying to find the words to describe the magic and the 'power of X' that took place at the TEDxSummit. (for a great reflection piece, check out TEDxEdmonton Ken Bautista's blog post here

To say that the trip to Doha with 700+ TEDx organizers from around the world was transformational, would be an understatement.

And yet, somehow, a part of me believes that the magic experienced at the TEDxSummit in Doha -- where we caught a glimpse of it at TEDActive this year given the 300+ TEDx organizers in attendance -- CAN be re-created in communities worldwide with local TEDx events IF the environment is conducive to turning ideas worth spreading into actions worth doing for the betterment of the community.

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Desert Day at TEDxSummit. Photo: Kris Krüg

With over 90+ nationalities represented at the TEDxSummit, I also realize that I may have just gotten a glimpse of what world peace could look like: where we, as humanity, with mutual respect, genuine trust and empathy for one another, work through our differences in cultural backgrounds, values and perspectives, in order to achieve a goal much larger than our individual selves.

These are some initial thoughts that I have on where I see TEDx heading, and the important role that TED will play in continuing to foster this global movement. I will definitely have more to say in upcoming blog posts, complete with examples and short stories, as I'm still tying to make sense of it all while going through all of my notes and recalling all of the discussions that I have had with numerous TEDx organizers from different parts of the world.

Being surrounded by hundreds of TEDx organizers from around the world, each with a vision for positive change in their local community using TEDx as the open platform, has certainly been inspiring.

All these years where I have held the firm belief that a better world is possible and where we have the power to create the future we envision, and then discovering a whole community of like-minded TED and TEDx organizers who feel, think and act the same way, is even more inspiring.

To quote one of my fellow TEDx organizers on the last day of the TEDxSummit:

"TEDx has brought us home... we can share this journey together." 

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TEDx letters at TEDxSummit. Photo: Kris Krüg

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Hey #ffpTED, check out this TEDxYouth video edited by the team at @TEDxBrussels #TEDxWaterloo #kwawesome

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#TEDxSummit and Why We Travel

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As I sit here reflecting and writing away on my laptop, coffee in hand and watching the sunrise from a distance, I am still trying to find the words to describe the magic and the 'power of X' that took place at the TEDxSummit in Doha this past week. 

In the meantime, I thought I would share one of my favorite pieces by Pico Iyer on "Why We Travel" that helps to capture the spirit and the emotions that I am going through...

http://www.cmi-gear.com/tim/travels/chapter12-travel.asp

"We travel, initially, to lose ourselves; and we travel, next, to find ourselves. We travel to open our hearts and eyes and learn more about the world than our newspapers will accommodate. We travel to bring what little we can, in our ignorance and knowledge, to those parts of the globe whose riches are differently dispersed. And we travel, in essence, to become young fools again -- to slow time down and get taken in, and fall in love once more. "

Happy Monday! 

(Photo credit: Kris Krug)

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Highlights from the Skoll World Forum 2012 #socent

Skoll World Forum on Social Entrepreneurship
Change the world! Change the world! Change the world!

     
 “ "I have a suggestion for a new name for the developing world. Let's call it the world." Hans Rosling #skollwf  
 
Twitter Ashoka UK  
 
   
 

 “ "Money doesn't make u special, it makes u lucky. Be generous, be crazy, be outrageous" @eveensler I adore you. vday.org #skollwf  
 
Twitter Caroline Wood 
 
   
 

 “ #Skollwf Award winner Meloto "I value the freedom to serve more than the power to rule."  
 
Twitter Debbie Forster 
 
   
 

 “ "Solutions are under our feet" - Tim Hanstad of @Landesa_Global #skollwf #landrights #justice  
 
Twitter Paul Hilder 
 
   
 

 “ Congratulations to our fellow 2012 Skoll Awardees too: @Landesa_Global, Nidan, @ProximityDesign and @TheVisayanforum! #skollwf  
 
Twitter Gawad Kalinga  
 
   
 

Watch highlights from this year's Skoll World Forum on YouTube

For more videos, audio recordings, photos and blogs visit Skoll World Forum 2012.

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I could swear someone was cutting onions behind me for Izzeldin Abuelaish's talk #TEDxWaterloo

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Watching the amazing Peter Katz on the big screen @TEDxWaterloo @ChrysTheatre reminds me of #TEDActive #ffpTED

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And the cupcakes from The Cakebox have arrived #TEDxWaterloo #ffpTED

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